Choosing Civility: The Twenty-five Rules of Considerate Conduct

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Macmillan, 2002 M02 28 - 196 páginas
Choosing Civility is a simple, practical, perfectly measured, and quietly magical handbook on the lost art of civility and compassion. Contents: Part One: Life and relationships - What is civility? - Respect in action - Happiness and the mind - How do we learn to love? - Civility and self-expression - Nice guys finish last. Or do they? - Science of love and social support - About the rules Part Two: The Rules 1. Pay attention 2. Acknowledge others 3. Think the best 4. Listen 5. Be inclusive 6. Speak kindly 7. Don't speak ill 8. Accept and give praise 9. Respect even a subtle "no" 10. Respect others' opinions 11. Mind your body 12. Be agreeable 13. Keep it down (and rediscover silence) 14. Respect other people's time 15. Respect other people's space 16. Apologize earnestly and thoughtfully 17. Assert yourself 18. Avoid personal questions 19. Care for your guests 20. Be a considerate guest 21. Think twice before asking for favors 22. Refrain from idle complaints 23. Give constructive criticism 24. Respect the environment and be gentle to animals 25. Don't shift responsibility and blame Part Three: Culture shock - Striking through the form to the substance - I did it my way - Authority on the wane - Age of the self - Living among strangers - Drive to achieve - Stress - How we play the game - Two sides of the coin - What to do.

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THE RULES
33
PART THREE
159
Notes
187
Suggestions for Further Reading
195
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DR. P.M. FORNI is an award-winning professor of Italian Literature at Johns Hopkins University. In 2000 he founded The Civility Initiative at Johns Hopkins and over the years has continued to teach courses on the theory and history of manners. His book "Choosing Civility" (2002) has sold more than 100,000 copies. Reports on his work have appeared on The New York Times, The Times of London, The Washington Post, The Wall Street Journal, and The Los Angeles Times. He has been a on a number of radio and television shows, including ABC's World News Tonight, CBS Sunday Morning and BBC's Outlook. For years he was a regular on-the-air contributor to the Baltimore NPR affiliate station and the nationally syndicated radio show The Satellite Sisters.

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