S. 32. If what I have said in the be- Mind. ginning of this Discourse, be true, as I do not doubt but it is, viz. That the difference to be found in the Manners' and Abilities of Men, is owing more to their Education, than to any thing else, we have reason to conclude, that great care is to be had of the forming Children's Minds, and giving them that seasoning early, which shall influence their Lives always after. For when they do well or ill, the Praise or Blame will be laid there; and when any thing is done untowardly, the common Saying will pass upon them, That it is suitable to their Breeding.

§. 33. As the Strength of the Body lies chiefly in being able to endure Hardships, so also does that of the Mind. And the great Principle and Foundation of all Vertue and Worth, is placed in this, That a Man is able to deny himself his own Desires, cross his own Inclinations, and purely follow what Reason directs as best, tho' the appetite lean the other way.

§. 34. The great Mistake I have Early, observed in People's breeding their Children has been, that this has not

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been taken care enough of in its due Season. That the Mind has not been made obedient to Rules, and pliant to Reason, when at first it was most tender, most easy to be bowed. Parents, being wisely ordain'd by Nature to love their Children, are very apt, if Reason watch not that natural Affection very warily; are apt, I say, to let it run into fondness. They love their little ones, and 'tis their Duty: But they often, with them, cherish their Faults too. They must not be crossed, forsooth; they must be permitted to have their Wills in all things, and they being in their Infancies not capable of great Vices, their Parents think, they may safely enough indulge their little irregularities, and make themselves Sport with that pretty perverseness, which, they think, well enough becomes that innocent Age. But to a fond Parent, that would not have his Child corrected for a perverse Trick, but excused it, saying, It was a small matter; Solon very well replied, Ay, but Custom is a great one.

§. 35. The Fondling must be taught to strike, and call Names; must have what

what he Cries for, and do what he Early. pleases. Thus Parents, by humoring and cockering them when little, corrupt the Principles of Nature in their Children, and wonder afterwards to tast the bitter Waters, when they themselves have poisoned the Foun+ tain. For when their Children are grown up, and these ill Habits with them; when they are now too big to be dandled, and their Parents can no lon ger make use of them, as Play-things, then they complain, that the Brats are untoward and perverse; then they are offended to see them wilfull, and are troubled with those till Humours, which they themselves inspired and cherished in them. And then perhaps, too late, would be glad to get out those Weeds, which their own hands have planted, and which now have taken too deep root to be easily extirpated. For he that has been used to have his Will in every thing, as long as he was in Coats, why would we think it strange, that he should desire it, and contend for it still, when he is in Breeches ? Indeed, as he grows more towards a Man, Age shews his Faults the more,

Early. fo that there be few Parents then so blind, as not to see them; few so insensible as not to feel the ill Effects of their own indulgence. He had the Will of his Maid before he could Speak or Go; he had the Mastery of his Parents ever since he could Prattle; and why now he is grown up, is Stronger and Wiser than he was then, why now of a sudden must he be restrained and Curbed? Why must he at seven, fourteen, or twenty Years old, lose the Privilege which the parent's indulgence,till then,fo largely allowed him? Try it in a Dog or an Horse,or any other Creature, and see whether the ill and resty Tricks, they have learn'd when young, are easily to be mended when they are knit; and yet none of those Creatures are half so wilful and proud, or half so desirous to be Masters of themselves and others, as Man.

§. 36. We are generally wise enough to begin with them when they are very young, and Discipline betimes those other Creatures we would make usefull to us. They are only our own Off-spring, that we neglect in this Point; and having made them ill Chil

Children, we foolishly expect they Early. fhould be good Men. For if the Child must have Grapes or Sugarplumbs, when he has a Mind to them, rather than make the poor Baby cry, or be out of Humour, why when he is grown up, must he not be satisfied too, if his Desires carry him to Wine or Women? They are Objects as suitable to the longing of one of more Years, as what he cried for when little, was to the inclinations of a Child. The having Desires suitable to the Appre hensions and Relish of those seve ral Ages is not the Fault: but the not having them subject to the Rules and Restraints of Reason: The Diffe rence lies not in the having or not having Appetites, but in the Power to govern and deny our selves in them. And he, that is not used to submit his Will to the Reason of others, when he is young, will scarce hearken or submit to his own Reason, when he is of an Age to make use of it. And what a kind of a Man such an one is like to prove, is easie to fore-see.

§. 37. It seems plain to me, that the Craving! Principle of all Vertue and Excellency,

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