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Reading is no small item of influence in the intelligent family, and has not a little to do with forming the characters of its members. Hence, a place is given to a chapter upon that subject, not to discuss the general topic of reading, but to exhibit the dangerous tendency of novel-reading which has become so general.

Chapters cleventh and twelfth may appear, at first view, foreign to the general plan of the work; but it is hoped that the notes appended in their proper place, with a careful reading of the chapters, will satisfy even critical readers of the propriety of inserting them. We bespeak an attentive perusal of the chapter on Philosophy of Character, especially by young men, and those who have the training of children. The last chapter- The Whole Family in Heaven, is presented as a motive to fidelity in applying to practice the counsels before discussed. It is also an exhibition of the hope of the household.

Almost any topic of discussion is made more intelligible and attractive by the citation of incidents. They add force to mere precept, and establish principles. Hence, the various subjects here discussed are illustrated by such an array of facts as their importance seems to demand.

In preparing a work of this kind there is danger of tedious repetition. The author has endeavored to avoid this as much as possible. If allusion is made twice to the same fact, principle, or scntiment, it is to present the different phases of a single truth, or to derive from it some lesson not previously discussed.

With these remarks the author sends out this volume upon its errand, hoping it may perform a mission of good to a world which will advance in purity, only so far as the family is made more perfect in union, virtue, and religion.

W. M. T.

CHAPTER I.

THE FAMILY ON EARTH.

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ITs Tics-Home-Luther- Associations of Home-Im-
portance of the Family Relation - Its influence upon Alfred
the Great, Cecil, Baxter, and others. The Relation of the
Family to the State-Policy of Greece and Rome-The
Family a State in miniature- Its power for good and evil-

Good Citizens made in the Family-The real cause of Pau-
perism and Crime in the Family-Its Relations make men
Patriotic-The Spartan lads. The Relation of the Family
to the Church-"Church in the House"-Revivals should
begin with Children in converting the World-The Family
not a Dependant - Socialism-Family ties fleeting.

CHAPTER III.

THE PARENTAL RELATION.

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ELI, Jacob, David, and others having wicked Children-
Docs God's Promise fail? The Answer. Connection be-
tween Character and early Training - Unseen Causes of
Filial Defection Chargcable to Parents- Monica. Impor
tance of Parental Relation - Children like Parents-
Parents in Charge of Souls, and Responsible for their Re-
ligious Culture-Scene if all Parents should Correctly
Train Children-Parents Reckless of Responsibility-Some
Train only for the Professions, and Mercantile Business, some
to appear well, some to be Rich Sad Consequences of
Bequeathed Property - Dr. Duff's Remark-Henry Clay's
Will. First Impressions The Three Sons- - Sir Robert
Peel-Linnacus - Byron and Scott-Will Children Rea-
son? The City Boy-Dr. Beattie's Son - Is a Child's
Time Worthless? Government in the Family — Governing
by Hope of Reward and Fear of Consequences - Three
Ways to Spoil Children-Love and Severity - The Scrip-
ture View - The Government of Prayer - Parental Incon-
sistency-Deception Parental Example and Precept-
Montaigne-Conclusion.

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CHAPTER IV.

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THE FILIAL RELATION.

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Its importance in the Light of the Scriptures-How Much
it is Disregarded. Filial Inconsistencics Specified — Oppos-
ing Parents-Pertness and Irreverence-Use of the Phrases,
“Old Man" and "Old Woman." Causes of the Neglect
of Filial Duties-Not Appreciating Toils of Parents-
Erroneous Views of Parental Discipline - Desire to be
Independent-Joseph, Napoleon, and Alexander-Regard
Expressions of Love a Weakness-Washington-Asham-

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SCRIPTURES Silent upon it-Harmony between Brothers
and Sisters Delightful - Instances of Alienation. Causes
of Rupture - Unforgiving Spirit - Unbridled Temper-
Teasing Envy - Property Inherited- Marriage - Reli-
gion. Virtues of the Fraternal Relation-Strong Attach-
ment Mutual Politeness-Confidence - Devotion as the
Fruit of Love-Joseph as a Brother - Power of a Brother's
and Sister's Influence-Address to Children, and the Little
Girl of Jamaica-Address to Youth and Anecdote of Timo-
leon-Address to Adults, and Case of Intaphemes' Wife —
Divine Blessing upon the Relation when Happy.

THE FAMILY SABBATH.

THE Second Institution Ordained in Paradise-Appella-
tions given to Sabbath - Families Desecrate it-To Fami-
lies really "The Pearl of Days." The Sabbath Cultivates
Domestic Affection-Only Opportunity many have to be
with Families. The Sabbath Presents a Favorable Oppor-
tunity to Parents for the Moral Instruction of Children-
Instruction at Home and in Sabbath School - Wise Divis-
ion of Time for this Object is One Day in Seven. The Sab-

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bath Renders the Family Relations more Enduring — Its
Rest Lengthens Life - Opinions of Dr. Backus, Dr. Sewall,
and Dr. Farre. Influence of Sabbath in Forming Youthful
Character-Two Familics Contrasted-The Criminal Cal-
endar-The Young Man from Home. The Sabbath Pro-
motes Household Piety-Where there is no Sabbath, there
is no Family Piety-Consequences if Sabbath Abolished-
The Aim of Infidels - Parental Example-Quinton's De-
scription of a Sanctified Sabbath throughout the World.

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RELATION of the Sabbath and Bible. The Family finds its
Sanction in the Bible Where there is no Bible there are
no Homes really-There Woman is Degraded - Socialism
the Fruit of Rejecting the Bible- Bible in Heathen Fami-
lies Renovates them. No Domestic Affection where no Bible

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Scenes on Banks of Ganges and in Sandwich Islands —
Facts among the Romans. Tee-book for Children - It has
Attractions-The Cavern of Diamonds - Bible furnishes
best Scenes for Artists - Has the most thrilling History -
Scripture Stories-Moscs in the Bulrushes - Bible Char-
acters illustrating every Virtue - The Infidel and the Bible
-Its Presence adds to the Reputation of Family -Inter-
esting Case. A Rich Treasure in Seasons of Trial- Death
Scenes in Families with and without the Bible Contrasted
Must be put in every Family before a World's Salvation
is Secured Quotation from Pollok.

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THE Sabbath, Bible, and Prayer, an Ordained Trinity of
Blessings to the Family-Duty of Family Prayer-Power
of Prayer. It Wins the Confidence of Men-They think
better of such a Family-They Expect More of Them.

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